My mom won't tolerate me use tampons?
How can I get this off of my chest and basically let her let me use tampons? I looked-for to use either Tampax or Playtex, and since before I even get my period I wanted to use tampons.
I aversion this, helpp?
Answers: Just sit her down and explain to her that you feel uncomfortable using pad and would rather use tampons. Be mature almost it though. She's probably uncomfortable with it because it's more approaching her little girl is growing up. So if you're whiny that won't give you any maturity points.
There are other reason she might not want you using them. She might be afraid you'll get TSS, or that you'll somehow "lose your virginity" to a tampon or something silly like that.
Here's a appropriate website to explain some stuff about them: http://www.teengrowth.com/index.cfm?acti...
The best thing is to merely be mature about it. She may or may not see the pale. If she does, well good. If she doesn't, you'll purely have to deal near it. Bum some off of your friends, or buy them and keep them where on earth she won't find them. She's probably going to notice you stealing them from her eventually, if she hasn't already.
AHHH HELP ME ITS AN EMERGENCY I AM BLEEDING!?
Find out why she doesn't want you to use tampons. If she is worried about TSS, next you can probably reason with her. Maybe you can compromise and set a confident time when you can start using them or use a certain "safer" brand or whatever. If - ont the other paw - she is afraid you will break your hymen and then either she can't describe whether your still a virgin or your future husband won't be able to convey, then I think it's not even worth conversation to her any more - just go buy your d*mn tampons and enlighten her to mind her own business. well she is probably thinking of tss (Toxic Shock Syndrome) and is trying to protect you. but if you really want to show her that you are grown up enough, next do some research on the benefits of using tampons and the risks that are also involved. by doing this you can show her that you are serious about using tampons, and that you are mature plenty to try them out.
Why does it hurt when I hold a tampon surrounded by?
Have you asked her why? Is she afraid of toxic shock symdrome (where tampons are left in too long, used to be a problem...) or newly thinks you are too young to stick stuff "up surrounded by there"?
Get her to explain why, explain your feelings honestly. That you wanted to use them previously your period...don't say that! It fuels her argument because it indicates you don't own a real reason. Ask her if you can in recent times "try it one time" because maybe she thinks you won't know how to do it right.
maybe you should listen to you mother on that note you are immature an these things causes cancer so if i was you i would use the pad to be on the safe side. it's natural for that to come about it's mother nature. your mom is probably concerned with the breaking of your Hymen so she can describe if you have had sex or she is worried something like you getting tss toxic shock syndrome very rare freshly ask her why
Just go buy some and don't tell her. Just keep hold of the pads in the bathroom and likelihood are she won't even notice. she wont let u use tampons cuz they break ur hymen and they bring infections they're really dangerous
Curious more or less when a womanly "Climaxes"?
maybe walk to the store and buy your own and she woulnt know? have a discussion with her around it.
if she still refuses to allow it
just buy your own box and hoard it somewhere ;)
ok well you do realize that she is jus worried about you right? she's worried tthat you might achieve TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome). i mean, what girl isn't scared more or less that? i'm 14 too, and i've been using for a while too, my mom was heasitant roughly speaking it too, she didn't let me use tampons for like, ever. she told me i be cause she wanted to similar to tell me more about using them or sum Sh** resembling that but anyways, lol it'll take some time for her to get used to the certainty that you're growing up, [[and this is not meant to be offencive or anything...]] but like I don`t know she just doesn't trust you enough all the same? Sit her down and talk to her.
The probable reason that she doesn't want you using tampons is because of TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome), which can be deathlike. It's caused by either using a tampon that is to say too absorbant for your flow, or leaving your tampon in for too long.
She probably is worried around you, and thinks that you might forget about it and come to an end up with TSS.
If you explain to her what's going on (because trust me, I know how gross pads quality, especially if your flow is heavy), she should let you use tampons. If not, well... budge out and buy your own.
Well,I was the same mode...when I started my period,I was on pad for about 2-3 months..I hated it!! But my mom get me tampons and pads and she said whatever is comfortable for me...Actually,tampons can confer you TSS (toxic shock syndrome) ...its actually deadly...possibly thats a reason?I dont know...but.if you really want to wear tampons,just sneak and buy them...stash them in a box wear she cant see them...or a closet or something..and its flushable..and you can keep the wrappers inside the box and throw away within the garbage can outside in a plastic pack or something...i feel bad for this suggestion,lol,but if it is worth it...I would do it!! Good Luck to ya
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