Bulimic or not??
I look around me and i feel sick to the stomach that I dont look the same size as other folks. I have struggled with personal problems as very well and my ex partner told me he wont marry me til im a size 10 ( US 6). Its like im loosing control and i cant stop it. I go through phases of consumption loads and then not eating anything for days. ( for example i havent eat anythign for 5 days at the moement).
I have made myself sick on some occassions after eating but not every time i drink. so does that mean i am not bulimic? its easy for society to say stop throwing up. But i cant. I have tried. when i dont clear myself throw up, the thought of food being in my stomach make me sick anyway.
I hate to think i am bulimic because when i see other bulimic citizens i dont think i am like them, i told some friends around it and they judged me and treated me different. because of this judgment i dont want to be judge.
please can someone help me.
Answers: I think I can abet you. I have been here, done that,and got the trophy so to speak. It sounds to me like you are both bulimic and anorexic. That's only the way I was. I have that mess for 22 years and only by the grace of God am I still living. At this point,the lst thiing you need are friends approaching the ones you currently have--they aren't your friends or they wouldn't be judging you. And,no-you ccan't just stop this on your own or I couldn't. I would suggest you budge to a medical doctor or a psychiatrist. You need to tell them everything you said within here. I was also under a great deal of stress and also I suffered from sexual abuse by an uncle and father--so my self-esteem hit rock bottom. There are several meds out now that in reality help you with consumption disorders. If you will go to counseling it will help--but support groups r even better. Get rid of your ex-partner--he is only making you worse and he doesn't infer your problem and never will. It is very complex and hard to agreement with BUT THERE IS HOPE FOR YOU. aFTER ALL, i AM STILL HERE,AND THAT IS NOTHING SHORT OF A M IRACLE. If you are a relgious person, speak beside a minister--they won't judge you. If you need to send for me 24/7. I will be glad to tell you all I go through and how i finally conquired it. I haven't had this terrible disorder since 1995--that be when I got my divorce and moved away from my father. He was a constand reminder of the things that have gone wrong in my life and I hear about it every day. My info is own my yahoo 360, so look into it and e-mailme and I will give a hand you any way I can--I know exactly how you feel,and what you are going through. God Bless!.
you may be and you should gain help NOW! its hard to cure and take a long time to stop making yourself throw up you just have body issues and you inevitability to leave that man becasue if he realy loved you what you look like wouldnt thing to him There are SO many healthy ways to lose substance. BUT why for this guy who doesn't value you. Do you plan to have children? You can't beside the way you are treating your body. Will you take birth control. There is accidental of gaining weight next to them.
You have to work on what is going on inside first.
I would love to talk to you more through emails.
Also, did you know when you don't drink for a long time and then eat again...instead of several small meal throughout the day. Your body doesn't let budge of NAY of the food you ate. You body is so scared that it doesn't know when the next suppertime is coming so it holds everything. Therefore, you gain weight.
Lose weight within a healthy way and do it for you. Not some yank who thinks size determine who you are. I would LOVE to see what he looks like because I can assault you anything his body has issues and his hair will slop out soon :-).
hey i know where your coming from.i had bullemia too, where on earth you make your self sick and also go days adjectives yourself . both of these things dont help because once you have eat your body already absorbes most the calories, and when you starve yourself it turns your body into fat as it thinks it wont be feed for some time.further more the acid from your stomach will erode your teeth,aswell as other problems.
sounds hard but conceivably you need to talk to someone, and try bring back back on track with a nourishing diet ,and take up a new hobby..
I brought a do machine ,stuck to a healthy illustrious protein low carb diet, dumped my bf who said nasty things ,and lost over a stone all by myself. you will love yourself within time just do it safely!
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